When something isn’t fair, they/we get upset. In part because we live in a culture that places such a high priority on fairness, or at least the perception of fairness, though we never seem to achieve it. We want life to be fair. I was in conversation with another Grandparent this past week and she was lamenting the fact that their grandson plays outfield on a youth baseball team and is really good at it, but feels he is good enough to take a spot-on infield… Problem is, the coaches son has the spot he’d like! You know that’s not ‘gonna happen in the real world!